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How are your relationships with your parents?


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Just now, Adeline said:

I have a good family,  I can't complain. I grew up in a loving house. I just dont get along with my father since I was a child , it was very hard sometimes but its better now that I'm an adult lol 

Are you still living with your parents?

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33 minutes ago, Tan Nazlı said:

I think this is THE MOST IMPORTANT question to ask, mental health problems are mostly caused by things that are happening in each household. Directly or indirectly... I would gladly listen to you guys, and share

I actually have a great relationship with my mom nowadays after constantly fighting each other for like 8 years just because of me being gay, she thought lady gaga and other artists and media i consumed turned me gay lol, i don't have a relationship with my father at all, i don't know him, and i actually don't speak with my mom's partner at all, i don't like him so I don't care to have a relationship with him.

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2 minutes ago, fkaharrison said:

I actually have a great relationship with my mom nowadays after constantly fighting each other for like 8 years just because of me being gay, she thought lady gaga and other artists and media i consumed turned me gay lol, i don't have a relationship with my father at all, i don't know him, and i actually don't speak with my mom's partner at all, i don't like him so I don't care to have a relationship with him.

So did you started getting along with your mom after all that time? How did that happen? 

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1 minute ago, godofchromatica said:

Yes ı try for this years...

Do they at least respect you about your interests... they don’t have to like Gaga (which is very strange if you ask me) but hey have to respect...

1 minute ago, Adeline said:

No I dont 😁  I just need to work and make money to pay rent and stuff lol

Which city are you living in?

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5 minutes ago, Tan Nazlı said:

So did you started getting along with your mom after all that time? How did that happen? 

yes, well it was really hard at first because we used to fight every single day, and when she found out that I am gay i was only 12, somewhere around when i was 17 i had my first boyfriend and i she met him eventually, she didn't like it but that opened up a conversation, then I started talking to her about my life, my friends, i let her know through the years that I'm more than just a Gaga fan or a gay person, we started watching RuPaul's Drag Race and she learned a lot watching it, she apologized and now she's basically my best friend.

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4 minutes ago, Tan Nazlı said:

Do they at least respect you about your interests... they don’t have to like Gaga (which is very strange if you ask me) but hey have to respect...

Which city are you living in?

I'm in France and you ? How old are you?  Did you get along with your parents? 

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2 minutes ago, fkaharrison said:

yes, well it was really hard at first because we used to fight every single day, and when she found out that I am gay i was only 12, somewhere around when i was 17 i had my first boyfriend and i she met him eventually, she didn't like it but that opened up a conversation, then I started talking to her about my life, my friends, i let her know through the years that I'm more than just a Gaga fan or a gay person, we started watching RuPaul's Drag Race and she learned a lot watching it, she apologized and now she's basically my best friend.

You know how beautiful and important it is that you share this story on this platform, right? I am sure there are people who will be touched by your story just as I am. Thank you so muchhh 🥰🥺

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Just now, godofchromatica said:

Yes :( they don’t respect for me

I wish you the best about that... but don’t forget that we get to choose our own families after a certain age. There are so many people who I’m sure would give you the love and respect you deserve! ❤️🙏🏼

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4 minutes ago, Adeline said:

I'm in France and you ? How old are you?  Did you get along with your parents? 

I’m 19 and from Istanbul. I get along with my parents actually, but I also feel like we are not on the same page on so many social issues. So I decided to distance myself from them in a level that would allow both my parents and myself to be happy together. Je peux parler en Français aussi. J’ai étudié dans une école francophone quand j’étais petit. Mais j’ai oublié un peu... 😂😂

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1 minute ago, Tan Nazlı said:

I’m 19 and from Istanbul. I get along with my parents actually, but I also feel like we are not on the same page on so many social issues. So I decided to distance myself from them in a level that would allow both my parents and myself to be happy together. Je peux parler en Français aussi. J’ai étudié dans une école francophone quand j’étais petit. Mais j’ai oublié un peu... 😂😂

Oh that's good french lol my English is really bad ! Its tempting but it's not fair for others who want to read lol 

It's a good thing if you have a good relationship with them 🙂

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1 minute ago, Adeline said:

Oh that's good french lol my English is really bad ! Its tempting but it's not fair for others who want to read lol 

It's a good thing if you have a good relationship with them 🙂

I think your English is pretty good too!! R u from Paris?

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