Health Toxic Friendships

[dafniye 130]

7 minutes ago, chimera2.0 said:

It's terrible, thank God you have overcome that toxic one.

Thank you. It really was terrible. I was made to convince another human being to stay alive for a long time when my own brain was telling me to kill myself. 

[chimera2.0 27]

5 minutes ago, dafniye said:

Thank you. It really was terrible. I was made to convince another human being to stay alive for a long time when my own brain was telling me to kill myself. 

That shouldn't have happened to anyone. Making friends online can be easier and fun but also very risky so be careful when talking online!

[Judas 24]

On 2/14/2021 at 1:30 PM, artpopulace said:

I used to have toxic friends way back in high school who had some superiority complex due to our school's exclusivity. Whenever I called them out, they gaslight me like I'm some kind of "angel" as they say. I slowly gravitated away from them and I honestly thankful for that. Unfortunately, I also got into a toxic relationship with an ex and still in a toxic relationship with my family. Nevertheless, I try to burn bridges "peacefully," by slowly gravitating away.

Happy to see some of them still grow over the years, even though they have been toxic to me. Still wouldn't want to become friends again but we have been talking casually.

that’s the same with me about burning bridges peacefully. the easiest way out is to distance yourself slowly 

[dafniye 130]

9 hours ago, chimera2.0 said:

That shouldn't have happened to anyone. Making friends online can be easier and fun but also very risky so be careful when talking online!

I totally agree. I was also a bit young back then so didn't have that much knowledge regarding this. Definitely not falling into that again.

 

5 hours ago, taygerm said:

omgg, I thought we were family (!) 

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[chimera2.0 27]

41 minutes ago, dafniye said:

I totally agree. I was also a bit young back then so didn't have that much knowledge regarding this. Definitely not falling into that again.

 

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Yes I see. Thank God we can all learn from the past.

[dafniye 130]

2 minutes ago, chimera2.0 said:

Yes I see. Thank God we can all learn from the past.

This is exactly why I'm not in favor of kids having phones and stuff. I was a kid with a phone and it honestly fcked me up real bad. 

[chimera2.0 27]

10 hours ago, Judas said:

That’s great that you’ll be in the same city!! At least that way you can meet up after school or inbetween class

Yes, it would be much more fun if we can go to the same city but at least we can keep in touch with each others.

 

6 minutes ago, dafniye said:

This is exactly why I'm not in favor of kids having phones and stuff. I was a kid with a phone and it honestly fcked me up real bad. 

I totally agree

[dafniye 130]

1 minute ago, taygerm said:

I'm a phone addict too and I spend most of the day on the phone

Me too. I don't know if I should laugh at myself or get help. 

It is quite addictive, and I always have to force myself to do other tasks besides using the phone all day. 

[dafniye 130]

3 minutes ago, taygerm said:

I agree! 

And the irony is we're talking about our addiction through the same phone. 

[dafniye 130]

1 minute ago, taygerm said:

we gotta get rid of this addiction! 😛

We have to work on a lot of stuff. Especially me. It's a good thing my finals are coming soon. I can say bye to my phone for some time atleast 

[dafniye 130]

12 minutes ago, taygerm said:

good luck bestie! 

You too love ❤️

[dafniye 130]

6 minutes ago, taygerm said:

awww 😍

 

[chimera2.0 27]

On 2/14/2021 at 8:30 PM, artpopulace said:

I used to have toxic friends way back in high school who had some superiority complex due to our school's exclusivity. Whenever I called them out, they gaslight me like I'm some kind of "angel" as they say. I slowly gravitated away from them and I honestly thankful for that. Unfortunately, I also got into a toxic relationship with an ex and still in a toxic relationship with my family. Nevertheless, I try to burn bridges "peacefully," by slowly gravitating away.

Happy to see some of them still grow over the years, even though they have been toxic to me. Still wouldn't want to become friends again but we have been talking casually.

If you can talk back to them it really shows that you have completely overcome it! Congrats.

[Judas 24]

8 hours ago, chimera2.0 said:

Yes, it would be much more fun if we can go to the same city but at least we can keep in touch with each others.

 

I totally agree

Well good luck with it! I hope it goes well :)

[Tan Nazlı 0]

Toxic friends are so bad, they can ruin everything that makes you happy.

[chimera2.0 27]

 

6 minutes ago, Judas said:

Well good luck with it! I hope it goes well :)

thank you bestie!

2 minutes ago, Tan Nazlı said:

Toxic friends are so bad, they can ruin everything that makes you happy.

True! Being with them could be extremely unhealthy and exhausted.

[Tan Nazlı 0]

Just now, taygerm said:

I hope they don't get close to any of us

 

They usually surround people who are happy

[Tan Nazlı 0]

3 minutes ago, chimera2.0 said:

 

thank you bestie!

True! Being with them could be extremely unhealthy and exhausted.

They are extremely hard to get rid of too 

[dafniye 130]

4 minutes ago, Tan Nazlı said:

They usually surround people who are happy

Couldn't agree more

They leech on our happiness and that brings some sort of sadistic satisfaction to them

[chimera2.0 27]

1 minute ago, Tan Nazlı said:

They are extremely hard to get rid of too 

Yes, we must not be sentimental and have to be honest with ourselves.

[dafniye 130]

6 minutes ago, chimera2.0 said:

Yes, we must not be sentimental and have to be honest with ourselves.

True. It's an addiction and becomes out partial fault too for keeping them. 

[chimera2.0 27]

3 minutes ago, dafniye said:

True. It's an addiction and becomes out partial fault too for keeping them. 

It ưould be hard at first because besides all the negativity there're also many good memories with those friends. But keeping these friendship can caused us many harms. 

[dafniye 130]

Just now, chimera2.0 said:

It ưould be hard at first because besides all the negativity there're also many good memories with those friends. But keeping these friendship can caused us many harms. 

Yeah it does get very hard. You also start to feel guilty, and worry about their well-being. 

[chimera2.0 27]

3 minutes ago, dafniye said:

Yeah it does get very hard. You also start to feel guilty, and worry about their well-being. 

And sometimes after breaking off we would re-engage with them once again. Truly terrible!

[Tan Nazlı 0]

Toxic friends who make you feel stupid for being excited about things are the worst kind