★ Moderator Tony 836 Posted January 2 ★ Moderator Share Posted January 2 31 minutes ago, Abderrahmenxo said: thank you for sharing too, i'm sure the gym will help you A LOT as it helps me too i forgot to mention it hahahaaha , keep going you are loved and thanks for being brave <3 Thank you. ❤️❤️ We were born to be brave just like Mother Monster said 1 1 I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why. Link to post Share on other sites
itsmartycz 3 Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 Hey guys. I guess it's just the typical annual "January anxiety" ... though it's so strong. I really feel stupid because I have nothing to whine about. I have a loving boyfriend for past six months, my family is healthy and 2020 is finaly over. School is okay too. It's just maybe the fear that things will fall apart like they always have right after I realised I have everything I need. My last three relationships were sh*tshows and my self esteem went from the sky completely underground. My boy is making me feel beautiful and he is a real angel but I still can't find out the way to love every part of me. Everytime I like myself I look in the mirror and realise how skinny I am and I feel like a skeleton. I know so many ppl have much bigger problems right now and this is nothing compared to problems of many others. Still...does anyone feel lost in a smiliar way? Also sorry for possible mistakes - love, little monster from Prague, Czech Republic Paws Up 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
★ Moderator little_monster_amy 122 Posted January 3 ★ Moderator Share Posted January 3 Yes, quite often, unfortunately. Especially when on holidays/vacations with my family if they're doing things like water related activities like in 2019 when they did this thing where they get into wet suits and helmets and they jump off rocks/cliffs into the water (I can't remember what the name of the activity was), but I was too anxious about doing it, so I stayed up on top of the cliffs with my earphones in (listening to Gaga, as usual 😂😂) 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 3 Author Share Posted January 3 8 hours ago, itsmartycz said: Hey guys. I guess it's just the typical annual "January anxiety" ... though it's so strong. I really feel stupid because I have nothing to whine about. I have a loving boyfriend for past six months, my family is healthy and 2020 is finaly over. School is okay too. It's just maybe the fear that things will fall apart like they always have right after I realised I have everything I need. My last three relationships were sh*tshows and my self esteem went from the sky completely underground. My boy is making me feel beautiful and he is a real angel but I still can't find out the way to love every part of me. Everytime I like myself I look in the mirror and realise how skinny I am and I feel like a skeleton. I know so many ppl have much bigger problems right now and this is nothing compared to problems of many others. Still...does anyone feel lost in a smiliar way? Also sorry for possible mistakes - love, little monster from Prague, Czech Republic Paws Up Thank you for sharing 💜 you must not minimize your problems or compare them to others, everyone feels in there own way. I understand the feeling of waiting for everything to fall apart but ,maybe you should try to focus on what you have , its great you have a boyfriend did you talk to him about your thoughts? About you self esteem I don't like myself, I try to found things I like in me when I look in the mirror. Some of people talk about working out, maybe it could help you I'm not a therapist, I'm here to listen and try to help if you're really feel depressed I'm sure there is professional who can help you if you need. 5 hours ago, little_monster_amy said: Yes, quite often, unfortunately. Especially when on holidays/vacations with my family if they're doing things like water related activities like in 2019 when they did this thing where they get into wet suits and helmets and they jump off rocks/cliffs into the water (I can't remember what the name of the activity was), but I was too anxious about doing it, so I stayed up on top of the cliffs with my earphones in (listening to Gaga, as usual 😂😂) Its sound scary to jump off a cliff , I understand totally 🙂, you dont like water ? Link to post Share on other sites
★ Moderator little_monster_amy 122 Posted January 3 ★ Moderator Share Posted January 3 5 hours ago, Adeline said: Its sound scary to jump off a cliff , I understand totally 🙂, you dont like water ? Not that I don't like water, I'd love to be able to do water activities, and I think there are some that I can do, and I like walking in the water on the beach. I guess I just got anxious because it was something new, maybe. I'm not really sure to be honest Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 3 Author Share Posted January 3 27 minutes ago, little_monster_amy said: Not that I don't like water, I'd love to be able to do water activities, and I think there are some that I can do, and I like walking in the water on the beach. I guess I just got anxious because it was something new, maybe. I'm not really sure to be honest New things are stressful, its just harder for some people than other. You just need to take bite of bravery, do things step by step 🙂 1 Link to post Share on other sites
★ Moderator little_monster_amy 122 Posted January 3 ★ Moderator Share Posted January 3 1 hour ago, Adeline said: New things are stressful, its just harder for some people than other. You just need to take bite of bravery, do things step by step 🙂 Thank you 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Spec 1 Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 I can’t do video calls anymore, I do not like the thought of being captured on camera/video and it freaks me out massively. Some songs I can’t listen to anymore either, bc they are linked to occasions where my trauma was heightened. Anxiety sucks :( 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 4 Author Share Posted January 4 4 minutes ago, Spec said: I can’t do video calls anymore, I do not like the thought of being captured on camera/video and it freaks me out massively. Some songs I can’t listen to anymore either, bc they are linked to occasions where my trauma was heightened. Anxiety sucks :( Oh yes, songs triggers anxiety sometimes, I was like you before. I dont listen to them anymore, dont force you to do things if it gave you anxiety. just listen to those who makes you happy . Try do to just call without the video, it's good too,we dont have to see each other to talk, we know how people look no need to see lol. Link to post Share on other sites
★ Moderator Tony 836 Posted January 6 ★ Moderator Share Posted January 6 On 1/4/2021 at 3:24 AM, Adeline said: dont force you to do things if it gave you anxiety. just listen to those who makes you happy . Exactly!!! forcing things is not the right way. On 1/4/2021 at 3:24 AM, Adeline said: Try do to just call without the video, it's good too,we dont have to see each other to talk, we know how people look no need to see lol. True! Even just a chat is enough. Communication it’s important. ❤️ I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why. Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 6 Author Share Posted January 6 1 hour ago, tony said: Exactly!!! forcing things is not the right way. True! Even just a chat is enough. Communication it’s important. ❤️ Yes , do what's best for yourself is the best way to feel good 1 Link to post Share on other sites
★ Moderator Tony 836 Posted January 6 ★ Moderator Share Posted January 6 1 hour ago, Adeline said: Yes , do what's best for yourself is the best way to feel good Yes. Always look up to someone if you need to. I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why. Link to post Share on other sites
danieldubla 6 Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 Yes, basically it gets dark later in the UK right now and the other day my friend sent me a picture saying he found the Chromatica Oreos so I went to the shop to get them at like 5:30pm and I thought I was gonna get hate crimed cause I was wearing platforms and I live in a rough area. I was so scared, but I did come back with 3 packs of Chromatica Oreos so I kinda won. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 24 Author Share Posted January 24 10 hours ago, danieldubla said: Yes, basically it gets dark later in the UK right now and the other day my friend sent me a picture saying he found the Chromatica Oreos so I went to the shop to get them at like 5:30pm and I thought I was gonna get hate crimed cause I was wearing platforms and I live in a rough area. I was so scared, but I did come back with 3 packs of Chromatica Oreos so I kinda won. Good job 😁 you're brave . Gaga makes us brave ❤ 1 Link to post Share on other sites
godofchromatica 28 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 On 1/6/2021 at 6:36 PM, Adeline said: Yes , do what's best for yourself is the best way to feel good Cause baby you were born this way Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 24 Author Share Posted January 24 Just now, godofchromatica said: Cause baby you were born this way Exactly, when you accept who you are its easier to be proud of yourself and make thing better steps by steps Link to post Share on other sites
Tan Nazlı 10 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 It prevents me from starting things... I think it’s the worst. Link to post Share on other sites
godofchromatica 28 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 4 hours ago, Tan Nazlı said: It prevents me from starting things... I think it’s the worst. İts so sad to hear :( Link to post Share on other sites
Tan Nazlı 10 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 Just now, godofchromatica said: İts so sad to hear :( Yes it is... 😔 Link to post Share on other sites
godofchromatica 28 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 Just now, Tan Nazlı said: Yes it is... 😔 I hope we solve our mental problems its hard but we can succeed Link to post Share on other sites
Tan Nazlı 10 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 1 minute ago, godofchromatica said: I hope we solve our mental problems its hard but we can succeed I believe it too 🙏🏼 Link to post Share on other sites
Adeline 589 Posted January 24 Author Share Posted January 24 4 hours ago, Tan Nazlı said: It prevents me from starting things... I think it’s the worst. Me too , I do nothing that I haven't done before mostly because it's to stressful Link to post Share on other sites
Tan Nazlı 10 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 1 minute ago, Adeline said: Me too , I do nothing that I haven't done before mostly because it's to stressful And when you start, do you feel like not finishing what you started... 😕 Link to post Share on other sites
godofchromatica 28 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 1 minute ago, Tan Nazlı said: And when you start, do you feel like not finishing what you started... 😕 I hate when ı started something is not finished Link to post Share on other sites
Tan Nazlı 10 Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 1 minute ago, godofchromatica said: I hate when ı started something is not finished Ikr 😞 Link to post Share on other sites
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