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What are the green flags of a relationship according to you? We always discuss the red flags and the toxicity, I want to discuss the positive aspects too. 

My partner does little things that would go unnoticed by other people, but mean so much to me. 

For example, three days later we have Eid, which is a celebration for Muslims around the world after Ramadan. He just wished me three days earlier because he wanted to be the first one 🥺❤️

My sister told me today that ever since I've been talking to him, I've been happier. And that I don't have as many outbursts anymore. I guess others around us can see the change of a healthy relationship in us too. That made me so content. 

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I wish I could participate, but I’ve never been in a relationship in my life. So... 🥺😞 

I’m sorry. I’m glad you’re in a relationship 💕 I hope he’s the right person for you :kiss:

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Hey,

I think the first thing is that you must feel happy and loved, I'm pretty sure that the other person make you feel confident about yourself.  It's in the little intention like you said thinking about something before other people, making sure your partner feel okay and listened to each other with an open mind and accept your partner with their particularities.

I'm happy for you by the way 🙂

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8 hours ago, Tony said:

I wish I could participate, but I’ve never been in a relationship in my life. So... 🥺😞 

I’m sorry. I’m glad you’re in a relationship 💕 I hope he’s the right person for you :kiss:

It's okay! Nothing has a timeline. I only found him recently too after thinking that I'd never find the real deal. 

Thank you for your words ❤️

6 hours ago, Adeline said:

Hey,

I think the first thing is that you must feel happy and loved, I'm pretty sure that the other person make you feel confident about yourself.  It's in the little intention like you said thinking about something before other people, making sure your partner feel okay and listened to each other with an open mind and accept your partner with their particularities.

I'm happy for you by the way 🙂

That's right. They give you this boost of confidence without making you feel pitied. And they notice small details about you and remember all the things you tell them. 

6 hours ago, Adeline said:

I'm happy for you by the way 🙂

Thank you 💕

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So, I had to write a Story for my Spanish class, it was a project with a lot of points. The teacher said we can write about whatever we wanted, so I decided to write about the only man I've ever fallen in love with. I was nervous because I didn’t know how I was going to react while writing, but it felt therapeutic. I didn’t cry at all, and that was shocking since I used to cry all the time when I thought about him. And yesterday I got the feedback from my teacher and it was super good! I got 10/10 grade and she congratulated me for my story. 

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I think the most important thing is to be open to each other and talk and discuss about things that bother us and we have problems with. It’s better than nonsense arguments and fights that lead to nothing

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On 5/21/2021 at 5:20 PM, Tony said:

So, I had to write a Story for my Spanish class, it was a project with a lot of points. The teacher said we can write about whatever we wanted, so I decided to write about the only man I've ever fallen in love with. I was nervous because I didn’t know how I was going to react while writing, but it felt therapeutic. I didn’t cry at all, and that was shocking since I used to cry all the time when I thought about him. And yesterday I got the feedback from my teacher and it was super good! I got 10/10 grade and she congratulated me for my story. 

That's so great to hear! Congratulations on the amazing grade, I'm sure you deserved it! 

Writing can sometimes be so therapeutic. It can feel a whole lot like pinching you emotions by one end and pouring them out on a paper. I usually write songs when I'm distressed in any way. 

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52 minutes ago, dafniye said:

That's so great to hear! Congratulations on the amazing grade, I'm sure you deserved it! 

Writing can sometimes be so therapeutic. It can feel a whole lot like pinching you emotions by one end and pouring them out on a paper. I usually write songs when I'm distressed in any way. 

OMG That’s amazing! And how many songs have you already written?

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I let go a person who I fell in love in the past, but it was still present in my life, and I felt very insecure and it was uncomfortable talking to him and his boyfriend. I might create a topic related to this. But it feels so good letting all go. 

I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why…

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I can't really tell. I've had a bad experience in my first relationship. Maybe I'm currently into someone right now… Maybe there's a green flag which would lead me to a new try. Not sure if it makes sense but yeah 😂

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On 7/2/2021 at 9:29 PM, noahcliff said:

I can't really tell. I've had a bad experience in my first relationship. Maybe I'm currently into someone right now… Maybe there's a green flag which would lead me to a new try. Not sure if it makes sense but yeah 😂

I’m into someone right now… but he’s far away from me and I hate long distance relationships. :/ 

I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why…

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I've never been into serious romantic relationship, to be honest. I was really close physically with one girl and everything seemed it might turn out to be a serious relationship, she seemed to care, but soon after, i found out she started being girlfriends with someone else. When they broke up she kinda tried to "get me back" (or whenever something wrong was happening in her relationship) but i didn't really care anymore.

 

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On 7/5/2021 at 12:57 PM, judasdaughter said:

I've never been into serious romantic relationship

Me neither. But in my case it’s just because I’ve been interested in persons who don’t want a relationship. 

I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why…

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4 hours ago, cromaticah said:

yes, it has been very hard but i love her so much

Just try to take only the good and one day the distance won't be an issue anymore 🥰

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I've been lonely for my whole life. Never been in a relationship before. Never.

I have a group of 4 close friends, all of them have their partners. I, however, have none.

Reading stories of yours makes me so jealous of you all. :sad2:

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5 hours ago, TerranceLoveGaga said:

I've been lonely for my whole life. Never been in a relationship before. Never.

I have a group of 4 close friends, all of them have their partners. I, however, have none.

Reading stories of yours makes me so jealous of you all. :sad2:

Is it your decision to be alone or are other things involved?

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21 hours ago, TerranceLoveGaga said:

I've been lonely for my whole life. Never been in a relationship before. Never.

I have a group of 4 close friends, all of them have their partners. I, however, have none.

Reading stories of yours makes me so jealous of you all. :sad2:

Welcome to the Lonely Hearts Club 🥲💔

I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why…

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23 hours ago, p4pergangsta said:

Is it your decision to be alone or are other things involved?

Yeah, I can't help but self-deprecating my appearance. I have feelings for people but I'm not good looking and I think will never find a true love.

7 hours ago, Tony said:

Welcome to the Lonely Hearts Club 🥲💔

:sad1:cheers!:sad1:

 

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31 minutes ago, TerranceLoveGaga said:

Yeah, I can't help but self-deprecating my appearance. I have feelings for people but I'm not good looking and I think will never find a true love.

Don’t be so hard on yourself. The right person will get to you sooner or later. Enjoy your life and love yourself. Loving yourself is the most important thing in the world. 

I think when love is pure you try to understand the reasons why…

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On 7/10/2021 at 10:08 AM, TerranceLoveGaga said:

Yeah, I can't help but self-deprecating my appearance. I have feelings for people but I'm not good looking and I think will never find a true love.

:sad1:cheers!:sad1:

 

Look, I wonder what you're feeling, because I felt this for a long time. We are stuck with a standard of beauty and we think anything different is unpleasant. I know it's common for us to miss close contact, but being dating or single doesn't mean you're not good enough. You are beautiful and I don't need to see you to be sure of it. You need to love yourself for someone to love you too. 

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